Questions to ask your DJ before you hire them.

Before you book your wedding DJ, make sure you’re asking the right questions! In this blog post, Enchanted Alice Events shares the top questions to ask your wedding DJ before hiring, including music style, equipment, timelines, crowd-reading skills, and must-know contract details. Ensure your reception runs smoothly and the dance floor stays full all night long.

11/21/20253 min read

DJ’s are one of the most important factors for your reception. If dancing is a priority, they can set the tone for your reception. The right DJ can keep your guests energized, create a memorable atmosphere, and ensure your musical vision is realized. To find the perfect wedding DJ, it's essential to ask the right questions before making your hire. In this comprehensive wedding planning blog series, we’ll explore the crucial questions you should ask a DJ before booking them to help you make an informed decision for your special day.

Why Asking the Right Questions Matters

Asking pertinent questions helps you assess their experience, style, professionalism, and ability to meet your expectations. Being prepared ensures no surprises during your wedding day and that you have a DJ who truly complements your vision.

1. What Is Your Experience with Weddings?

Experience matters, especially with weddings that require a keen understanding of timing, flow, and guest interaction. Ask how many weddings they've DJed and if they have experience with similar-sized or themed weddings. Request references or reviews from past clients to gauge their professionalism and quality.

Your wedding music should reflect your style and preferences. Clarify whether the DJ is flexible with song choices and allows you to create a playlist or specific do-not-play list. Ask how they handle song requests from guests and if they incorporate special songs for moments like first dance, cake cutting, or bouquet toss.

2. Can You Personalize the Playlist?

3. What Is Your Music Library and Equipment?

Ensure their music library is extensive and includes a variety of genres. Also, inquire about their sound equipment—high-quality speakers, microphones, and backup gear are essential for seamless playback and guest speeches. Confirm if they bring their own equipment or if rental details are included.

4. Do You Offer a Consultation or Demo?

A professional DJ may offer a pre-event consultation to discuss your musical vision, timeline, and any special requests. Some DJs also provide demo mixes or sample playlists. This helps you assess if their style matches your expectations. If not, they may be able to share videos from prior weddings with you.

Ask if the DJ holds all necessary licenses, permits, and insurance. This protects you and your vendors and ensures their compliance with legal requirements, providing peace of mind on your wedding day. Many venues require all vendors to be insured.

5. Are You Properly Licensed and Insured?

It's important to know how they manage guest requests—are they open to them or have a system for filtering? Also, discuss how they plan to handle key moments like your first dance, father-daughter dance, or other special songs, to ensure they are executed flawlessly.

6. How Do You Handle Song Requests and Special Moments?

7. Do You Play About the Atmosphere or Do You Take Cues from the Crowd?

Clarify whether the DJ plays a set playlist or reads the room and adjusts the music accordingly. Flexibility may be critical for maintaining energy levels and guest engagement throughout the reception.

8. How Do You Manage Timing and Event Transitions?

Timing is everything at a wedding. Ask how the DJ coordinates with your timeline—announcements, cake cutting, toasts, and dance breaks. They should be able to smoothly transition between moments to keep the reception flowing. Some DJ’s require all cues from a wedding planner.

9. Can You Provide a Contract and What Are Your Payment Terms?

Always request a written contract outlining services, packages, cancellation policies, and total costs. Clarify deposits, payment schedules, and refund policies to avoid misunderstandings later.

10. Do You Have Backup Plans?

Technical issues can occur. Confirm whether the DJ has backup equipment, backup plans for power outages, and if they have another DJ on call if needed. Preparedness reflects professionalism.

11. How Do You Handle Special Requests or Unique Music Needs?

If you have cultural, religious, or themed music requests, ensure the DJ is willing and able to accommodate them. This ensures your cultural traditions or personal preferences are respected.

13. Do You Offer Lighting or Additional Services?

Many DJs provide add-on services like dancefloor lighting, photo booths, or mood lighting to enhance the atmosphere. If you're interested, discuss these options and costs.

Final Tips for Choosing Your Wedding DJ

  • Meet in person or via video call to gauge chemistry and professionalism.

  • Review their portfolio or ask for a playlist sample.

  • Trust your instincts—your DJ should make you feel confident and excited about your reception.

  • Read the contract carefully before signing.

Conclusion

Choosing the right wedding DJ is essential to creating a fun, memorable, and seamless celebration. By asking these important questions, you’ll ensure your DJ understands your vision, can handle any situation, and provides entertainment that perfectly suits your wedding style. Happy planning, and here's to a fantastic wedding reception filled with great music and unforgettable